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Tip 4 – Your first chat message? Do not make this mistake on the first message

Tip 4 – Your first chat message? Do not make this mistake on the first message

Just stay open and honest . Just stay relaxed and show understanding for each other. Your true character and vulnerability come first.

So, you met someone (at a party, for example) and you didn’t agree to see each other again, but you did exchange numbers. You know what to do: the next step is to make an appointment via the telephone number.

Don’t make the mistake I made: I wanted to make an appointment right away. And she said that we would schedule a date via Whatsapp. The very first SMS I sent was: “I think it would be nice to meet you on Wednesday evening.” You guessed it: no response.

What can you learn from this? Do n’t make plans in the first Whatsapp message or hint at it! The first message is all about re-initiating the contact.

  • “Nice meeting you Sara. Do you have plans tomorrow? ” Wrong…
  • “Nice meeting you Sara. Do you want to hang out on Friday? ” Wrong…
  • “Nice meeting you Sara. I would like to meet you soon, if you think that’s cool? ” Gamer-Girl Dating Seite Wrong…

Tip 5 – The first Whatsapp message should be simple and not demanding

Just let the first Whatsapp message be something simple without immediately demanding the other to make a major ‘investment’, such as grabbing the agenda and committing to an appointment. A fun, flirty, or teasing message is allowed.

In any case, make it a personal message, so a message that would only be appropriate for that specific person. You can achieve this in the following ways:

  • Chat in the dialect or language of the other. “Good morrege Sara fan Amsterdam. I font het salvation fun.”
  • Do not start a fresh topic of conversation via Whatsapp again. That is not necessary for anything and you have to completely rebuild the connection. What you should do is remind the other of the connection that was there when you met live. Repeat the same jokes you had then, refer to your conversation or activity or send a photo of that moment.
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